Teen & Tween Talent Spotting: After The Playground

Blogging about your teenage children is a very different matter to blogging about your baby. Teen and tween offspring are highly active on social media and, perhaps more importantly, so are their friends. This means that you will be highly censored. There will be limits placed on what you can say and which photos you can use. As you can see – I only just made it into this one. I’m squeezed in behind my eldest daughter!

After The Playground

On the other hand, it is definitely not all bad news. Ever the optimist. I decided to use the fact that I have older children to my advantage and recently launched a recruitment drive.

I put together a tongue in cheek CV for each of my children (and my husband) to work out what skills I could (exploit) harness to promote my blog.

Here are the skills that my family brought to the table. (without them even knowing it)

  • Husband – wry observations and witty anecdotes on raising three daughters which provide an endless supply of material. Useful to take with me to events as can be relied upon to find where we are supposed to be going/not say anything too embarrassing/get me home safely.
  • Eldest daughter – musical aptitude, video editing skills, provides material on kids leaving home and starting university and looks good in photos.
  • Middle daughter – IT skills, social media savvy, provides material on teen issues and looks good in photos.
  • Youngest daughter provides material on primary school kids and sentimental pieces on growing up, has a great eye for photography and looks cute in photos.
  • Pet rabbit – not quite sure yet but will be expected to contribute or will be removed from the team.

Pretty impressive or what? The moral of the story is this. If you have older kids and can get them on board they can definitely turn out to be more of an asset than a liability. To prove my point, here is a little video ‘we’ managed to put together. I honestly couldn’t have done this without them!

Introducing After The Playground

I am (in no particular order) a wife, a mother of three fabulous daughters (17,14 and 10 years), an academic with a PhD in epidemiology and a writer. And I am me. I fully intend to discover who that is and I’d love to share my experiences after the playground with you.

After The Playground was created out a perfect storm of unpleasantness during the early stages of 2016; pre-menopausal hormones, the not too distant prospect of empty-nest syndrome, a health scare and an especially nasty bout of flu left me feeling a little lost. It is my way of creating something positive from a potentially negative set of circumstances. I am no expert but as I find out what works for me I will share my experiences – I hope you find some of them helpful.
You can follow After The Playground on Twitter, Facebook and Instagram. Pop over and say hi! Don’t forget to say Pudding sent you 🙂


17 thoughts on “Teen & Tween Talent Spotting: After The Playground”

  1. haha loved the ending to the Vlog! Your daughters are so pretty. I have 2 girls Aspen will be a teen next year so I do have to think about what I share more about her now. April loves being on camera, my son (the youngest) is usually a little more shy, but sometimes he decides to be his crazy self, he likes being in my Vlogs more than having a photo taken. #EatSleepBlogRT

  2. I love how you have found the strengths of each member to exploit (ha!), I mean promote, your blog with an endless fuel for blog topics (and they look good too!). I <3 silent films (the music is perfect!). Your view is uplifting. Thank you for sharing! #EatSleepBlogRT

  3. This is a great insight, and you’re right, your girls certainly do look good in photos! My boys are becoming tweens, and I’m already getting the ‘edited’ versions of what I can publish! At least they are keen on making Vlogs too! #EatSleepBlogRT

  4. It’s great that your daughters came on board with the blogging. I can imagine how they might want you to censor some of the things you write about them. Love the picture of your beautiful family. #EatsleepblogRT

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